Friday, November 29, 2013

"Thanks Giving" (video)

Last week, I prayed that I would find a solution to an especially stressful  issue in my life and I would find peace.  The next day, the following was posted by a FB friend.  Sometimes, God uses a friend, unbeknownst to them, to answer prayer.

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There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or to accept the responsibility for changing them.


Watch "Thanks Giving"
Be Postive, Be Inspired, And Serve Others

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Gratitude: Wish you a meaningful Thanksgiving

of love and wonder with family and friends

"Gratitude takes three forms: a feeling in the heart, an expression in words, and a giving in return."
~John Wanamaker


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Life Secrets

Sunday, November 24, 2013

Inside EF-4 tornado (190+ mph) Washington, Illinois (3:33 min video: explicit language)

E4 tornadoes (190+ mph) cut a three-mile swath (& more than 46 miles long) through Washington, Illinois about 150 miles southwest of Chicago. Authorities in Washington, IL acknowledged that they had vastly underestimated the number of homes damaged or destroyed, and revised the initial figures of 250 to 500 homes, to upward of 1,000.
Some of those belonged to the area’s 911 dispatchers, firefighters, paramedics and police officers, who are spending little time attending to their own ordeals.
“The first responders are people too, and sometimes we forget that,” Buffalo Grove Police Chief Terry Vavra said. “They had to either leave their home, and leave that devastation, or they weren’t even home when the devastation occurred.”

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If you choose to share with Washington, Illinois tornado victims, the following allows total amount to be invested directly to food, etc. for children/families... no cut to administrative costs.

Check: (Tax Deductible)
Payable to: Washington Rotary Foundation
For: Washington, IL  Tornado Assistance

Mail to:
c/o: District 50 schools

Attn: Dr. Patrick Martin

304 East Almond Drive

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WASHINGTON, Ill. (AP) - The mayor of the central Illinois community of Washington says more than 1,000 homes have been damaged or destroyed by strong storms.
Mayor Gary Manier says that figure includes homes that were totally destroyed as well as properties that received minor damage. Officials still haven't said how many people in the community have been affected by Sunday's tornado. Washington has about 16,000 residents and is about 10 miles east of Peoria.
The National Weather Service says the tornado that hit Washington had winds that reached 190 miles per hour. The funnel cloud cut a path more than 46 miles long, killing one person and injuring dozens more.
Across Illinois, Sunday's storms killed six people. Forecasters say there were at least 11 tornadoes that hit the state.
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Best coin ever spent.

A little girl donates some coins to a street musician and gets the best surprise in return. Well, that's certainly money well spent.

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Two Wolves Inside of Me (video)

Life: a series of choices. Where you are right now can all be linked back to every choice that you've made in your life to date.

Every day we all make countless choices and every single one of them counts. That is what this short movie is all about.

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Thursday, November 21, 2013

Washington Strong: 11-17-2013 Washington, Illinois tornado

Washington IL Tornado Recovery

An E4 tornado (190 mph)  cut a three-mile swath through Washington, Illinois about 150 miles southwest of Chicago. Authorities in Washington, IL acknowledged that they had vastly underestimated the number of homes damaged or destroyed, and revised the initial figures of 250 to 500 homes, to upward of 1,000.
Some of those belonged to the area’s 911 dispatchers, firefighters, paramedics and police officers, who are spending little time attending to their own ordeals.
“The first responders are people too, and sometimes we forget that,” Buffalo Grove Police Chief Terry Vavra said. “They had to either leave their home, and leave that devastation, or they weren’t even home when the devastation occurred.”

As of Thursday morning, here are the damage numbers from Sunday's tornados in Tazewell County
(posted by D. Norman from Tazewell County Board Member John Ackerman):

Tazewell County Totals: 524 homes destroyed, 554 damaged
 
Washington – 135 homes require MAJOR repairs, 491 total loss
East Peoria – 13 homes require MAJOR repairs, 21 total loss
Pekin – 25 homes require MAJOR repairs, 8 total loss
Sunnyland – 15 homes require MAJOR repairs, 4 total loss
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Thank you for support you choose to extend: prayers, financial,...

If you choose to share with Washington, Illinois tornado victims, the following allows total amount invested directly to food, etc. for children/families...no cut to administrative costs.

Check: (Tax Deductible)
Payable to: Washington Rotary Foundation
For: Washington Tornado Assistance

Mail to:
c/o: District 50 schools

Attn: Dr. Patrick Martin

304 East Almond Drive

Washington, IL 61571

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Click below: videos

* 11-21-2013 Washington IL tornado damage assessment starts as FEMA arrives (2:45 min.)

Washington Strong   (4:22 min.)
Put together a little slideshow/video of some of the pictures from the storm that really say it all.




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Teresa, one of ALE's "Boots on the Ground" team members shares the story of a family she met in Washington, IL. (1:41 min.)


Red Flags: Is your child being bullied?

According to Jerry Weichman, PhD, a licensed   psychologist who specializes in adolescence at the Hoag Neurosciences Institute in Newport Beach, California, “Kids often spend more time at school than they do at home, so it’s important that parents stay vigilant about what’s going on in their lives,” he tells Yahoo Shine. If you think your kid is being bullied at school, here are some red flags to watch for. Even one is enough to be concerned, according to Weichman.

Lashing out at home:
Children understand when something feels wrong, but they may not know how to cope, says Weichman. “If your kid suddenly develops a short fuse and begins bullying siblings or a helpless family pet, it may be a learned behavior.”


Disruptive sleep or eating patterns: Anxiety disrupts the body's daily rhythms and can cause insomnia. Anxiety can also cause either an increase or a decrease in appetite, depending on the individual.
Changes in schedule: Does your kid suddenly not want to go to basketball practice anymore? Does he take a different route to school? “He may be trying to avoid someone who is bullying.

The Strange Effect of Bullying

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Cumbria (UK) police highlight success of restorative justice

Cumbria police have highlighted the success of a punishment which forces criminals to face the consequences of their actions.

Restorative justice sees a face to face meeting between the offender and their victims.
A trained expert asks structured questions that highlight how the offender’s behaviour has impacted on people’s lives.
Since 2008, officers in Cumbria have had the option to deal with low level offending by using Restorative Justice as an alternative to conventional means.
The system has gone from strength to strength, with 270 crimes in 2011 and 320 crimes in 2012 being dealt with in a restorative way.
Assistant Chief Constable Michelle Skeer said: “Restorative justice is a great way of dealing with minor offences to the benefit of both the victim and the community. It also provides police officers with the flexibility to deal with a variety of offences effectively.
“One of the priorities for Cumbria Constabulary is to utilise restorative processes more, involving victims, and giving them a voice in the way the police deal with lower level offences and anti-social behaviour. The implementation of the process will be decided on a case by case basis.
“It can provide the victim with a degree of closure, which they have had direct control over and have helped to facilitate. Going through the Community Resolution or Restorative Justice meeting has also been proven to have more impact on an offender than a prison sentence or a court punishment alone. The Offender can see the consequences of their actions, leading them to make changes in their future behaviour.”

Monday, November 18, 2013

Restorative Justice: Interview with Eric Butler

By Hana Baba


Today we're talking about Restorative Justice and how some schools are shifting their approach to student discipline. Eric Butler is the Restorative Justice Coordinator at Ralph Bunche High School in Oakland. There are over 20 schools in Oakland that have incorporated some sort of restorative approach to discipline. This means, instead of a punitive approach to issues at school, all parties are encouraged to address the harm that's done and then try to repair any harm that was caused in their community. Eric Butler says the approach is a complete shift from how schools traditionally deal with discipline.
ERIC BUTLER: "We’re doing something different we’re apologizing for those messed up messages that we taught because we should’ve been teaching tolerance."
Click the audio player above to listen to the full interview. (Hana Baba...drop down to RJ)

Sunday, November 17, 2013

Brotherly love...Arthur & Johnnie Ashe... 11:37 min. video

Ashe family history: shows how powerful and deep brotherly (and sisterly) love is.

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Restorative justice may be good fit for NM, attorney general says

LAS CRUCES – Attorney General Gary King told a border conference Wednesday that Mexican-style restorative justice could alleviate overload in the New Mexico system.
He suggested the state could learn from Mexico’s practice of bringing victims and perpetrators of petty crime face to face to keep small crimes from clogging the system.
“They sit across the table from each other,” he said. “They can work out an arrangement where the victim is compensated by the perpetrator of the crimes. I think our system, which is overloaded, could really benefit from looking at the Mexican restorative justice system.”
Restorative Justice New Mexico’s website defines the process as one that “looks at the crime in terms of harm that has been done, rather than rules which have been broken.” It seeks to include all the people affected by the crime in a solution.
King said he witnessed restorative justice at work in a courthouse in Mexicali in the state of Baja California Norte. State District Court judges have recommended restorative justice in criminal cases including a 2011 shooting in Santa Fe, and Albuquerque has used restorative justice in juvenile offenses for years.
Dave Pederson, general counsel to the attorney general, said restorative justice is prevalent in Navajo and other tribal courts and it is a tool judges have the option to use. But it hasn’t been widely institutionalized in the state criminal justice system.
“It has not been formalized to a great degree other than the creation of some of our specialty courts, which I think are a spinoff of this concept,” Pederson said, referring to drug court and mental health court.
King said, “I’ve talked to a lot of people about it because as I’ve seen it operate in Mexico, I think it’s really something that we can do here in a fairly straightforward way.”

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Real Talk for Real Teachers...Rafe Esquith

Video: Educator-author Rafe Esquith | Watch Tavis Smiley Online ...

Morning Video: Rafe Esquith's Back To School Advice

Books by Rafe Esquith:

Lighting their Fires: raising extraordinary kids in a mixed-up, muddled-up, shook-up world

Real Talk for Real Teachers

Teach Like Your Hair's On Fire

There Are No Shortcuts
 

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Friday, November 8, 2013

Operation Yuletide & Fill the Cruiser Programs Return to Bring Holiday Cheer to Greensboro Families


Local shoppers will see Greensboro Police Department employees outside their favorite shopping centers this month as the department promotes Operation Yuletide, an initiative to bring holiday cheer to at least 100 deserving Greensboro families.

Throughout the year, police often meet people who are experiencing tough times. To make the holidays a little brighter, GPD employees nominate families for Operation Yuletide. In its third year, Operation Yuletide hopes to provide a full holiday meal and gifts of new clothing, toys, and household items to these families.
 
Last year, Operation Yuletide delivered goods to 116 families.

This event is truly a partnership that involves the entire community,” said Police Chief Ken Miller. “Our friends from Neese’s Country Sausage provided food for the families and refrigeration trucks to keep perishables fresh. People from Christ Wesleyan Church helped collect monetary donations and accepted delivery of food from First Harvest Food Bank. And we had a huge outpouring of volunteers who helped in so many ways to make this event possible.”
 
Donations from businesses and community members also made Operation Yuletide a success. Police rely on the generosity of the public to donate gifts at Fill the Cruiser events. GPD employees encourage shoppers to fill police sedans with needed items that will later be wrapped and delivered by police department personnel.
 
Fill the Cruiser events are scheduled from 11 am to 3 pm at the following stores:
  • November 7 - Big Lots on Battleground Avenue and Wal-Mart on Cone Boulevard
  • November 8 - Costco and Target on Wendover Avenue
  • November 12 - Big Lots on Battleground Avenue and Wal-Mart on Cone Boulevard
  • November 13 - Old Navy on Wendover Avenue
  • November 14 - Sears at Friendly Center (from 10 am to 2 pm) and Wal-Mart on Battleground Avenue
  • November 15 - Costco on Wendover Avenue
  • November 18 - Wal-Mart at Wendover Avenue and Wal-Mart on Battleground Avenue
  • November 19 - K-Mart on Wendover Avenue
  • November 22 - Old Navy on Wendover Avenue and Wal-Mart on Battleground Avenue
  • November 25- K-Mart on Wendover Avenue
  • November 26 - Big Lots on Battleground Avenue and Wal-Mart on Cone Boulevard
  • November 27 - Wal-Mart on Wendover Avenue
  • November 29 - Big Lots on Battleground Avenue
Anyone interested in contributing monetary donations can make checks payable to Christ Wesleyan Church, 2400 S. Holden Rd., Greensboro, NC, 27407. Please indicate Operation Yuletide at the bottom of the check. Church staff will provide receipts for tax-deductible cash donations. All proceeds will benefit Operation Yuletide.
 
Police personnel and volunteers will deliver donations to local families in mid-December.

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Thursday, November 7, 2013

Healthcare Faith Summit: Developing/Nurturing Healthy Families, Healthy Communities

Th., Nov. 14: Healthcare Faith Summit
Site:  Mount Zion Baptist Church (Greensboro, NC).

Please help us spread the word …the summit is FREE, however we need you to register ASAP ….thanks …Pastor Odell Cleveland

Teen Brain: Behavior, Problem Solving, and Decision Making

The Teen Brain: Behavior, Problem Solving, and Decision Making

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

The Dash 2:42 min. video

Life works in strange ways. Joseph Epstein once said, "We do not choose to be born. We do not choose our parents, or the country of birth. We do not, most of us, choose to die; nor do we choose the time and conditions of our death. But within this realm of choicelessness, we do choose how we live."

That is what The Dash is all about!


Watch - The Dash >>


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Tuesday, November 5, 2013

"The Final Gift", with film maker Therese Bartholomew

DATE AND TIME OF EVENT: November 18, 2013, 5:00pm - 8:30pm
LOCATION: 0014W for film at 6PM / 0015W for pizza at 5:15PM
CONTACT INFO: Rev. Cari Willis caridbom@gmail.com/ 336-905-5441
EVENT SPONSOR(S): Prison Ministry Enlivening Duke Divinity (PriMEDD) Student Group
EVENT DESCRIPTION: One night in 2003, ThereseBartholomew woke to the devastating news that her beloved younger brother Steve had been shot and killed. Debilitated by depression, facing bond hearings and trying to keep her new marriage afloat, Therese worked through her grief the only way she knew how: by setting out to meet the person behind Steve’s untimely death. Completed in 2012, The Final Gift follows the filmmaker’s seven-year pursuit to find meaning in her life after her brother’s murder. Her vision for the film grew out grew out of her desire to meet and understand the killer. In December 2010, that meeting occurred and was filmed in a South Carolina prison. The meeting was the first victim offender dialogue involving a violent crime in South Carolina’s adult system. The film addresses universal ideas of forgiveness, redemption, as well as the larger societal questions –how do we make peace with crime, support the victims, and restore our communities? The documentary shows the impact of violence on a family and one survivor’s path to peace and healing. Sister Helen Prejean, author of Dead Man Walking, calls The Final Gift “a remarkable journey…intimate in the telling, honest and brave and true.” TodayTherese holds a Master’s Degree in Criminal Justice and is a frequent speaker on the subject of restorative justice; author of a memoir, Coffee Shop God (2009); and the first filmmaker in more than two decades to have brought cameras into a South Carolina prison. Therese lives in Charlotte, NC, with her husband Doug and children.

Monday, November 4, 2013

Senate Bill 52: An Act Promoting Restorative Justice Practices; Sponsor: Senator Jamie Eldridge

Summary: This bill creates an option for law enforcement and courts to refer juvenile and low-level adult criminal offenders to a community-based restorative justice program in lieu of or alongside other responses. The referral may be made pre-complaint, at the arrest, pre-arraignment, or sentencing phase and is contingent upon victim wishes. Restorative justice practices may include voluntary meetings among victim, offender, supporters, and community members that provide an opportunity to meet victim needs, hold an offender accountable, explore the impact of the crime upon community, and agree upon a constructive plan of repair by consensus.
Why This Matters: Restorative justice is an approach to community harm and criminal justice that emphasizes repairing the harm caused by the event, as opposed to just handing down a punishment. Restorative justice programs can be used to keep certain offenses out of the court system, saving the state valuable time and money, but still holding the offender accountable to the victim and the community.
Someone arrested for spray-painting graffiti, for example, may be asked to apologize to the property owner in person, and then spend his or her own time and money to paint over the graffiti. When the offender completes these requirements, the police can drop the case, keeping the offender out of court but still accountable for his or her actions.
Restorative justice helps victims by providing an opportunity to get an explanation and apology from the offender. As has been demonstrated in studies, many victims find closure through this process, and are better able to move on from the crime.
At the same time, it helps keep low-level offenders – particularly first-time and youthful offenders – out of the criminal justice system. Studies have shown that recidivism rates are significantly reduced for participants in restorative justice programs, and that these programs tend to cost far less than traditional court processes.
Restorative justice is not “new”: there are nearly 300 programs in the U.S. and the approach is well established in countries like New Zealand, throughout the United Kingdom, and in South Africa.
You can view the full text of the bill and track its history here.-
See more at: http://www.senatoreldridge.com/legislation/jamies-2013-2014-legislation/criminal-justice/s52-an-act-promoting-restorative-justice-practices#sthash.yRToqQ5H.MiO1e8yx.dpuf

Friday, November 1, 2013

Restorative Justice Practices/Circles: How It Works

  Has your child or someone you know ever been harmed?
Have you yourself harmed another at home, school, or work?

Join us to learn about a program designed through special mediation to 
Keep Our Homes and Schools Safer!


AN INVITATION TO OUR COMMUNITY
4th - 5th gd/MS/HS/College Students & Adults
Monday, November 4, 2013; 5:15 - 6:45pm
                  Jon Powell & Franklin Ard:  Restorative Justice Practices/Circles


Speakers:
Attorney Jon Powell, Director of the Juvenile Justice Project, and


Franklin Ard, Social Worker III /General Instructor at NC Department of Public Safety, Division of Juvenile Justice
facilitate Restorative Justice Practice mediations with offenders and victims to “repair the harm” 
This program can benefit people of all ages and all environments, especially school settings, thru deep questions:
-Who has been hurt?
-What are their needs?
-Who has the obligation to address the needs, to put right the harms, to restore relationships?
“Conflict is Opportunity…Don’t Waste It”
 
For further info and video, click left p1 and 5: www.saferschools.blogspot.com

New Garden Friends Meeting Worship Room, Greensboro
801 New Garden Rd (corner of W Friendly & New Garden Road): across from Guilford College
Walk around to back of NGFM: enter 2nd door from left
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Restorative justice: How it works

At the center of the restorative justice process is a meeting between the offender and the victim, which research has shown reduces recidivism.

“Sitting in a circle face to face with the person you burglarized, who looks not unlike your grandmother, and having to apologize and hear the impact you had on their life, how you caused sleeplessness, or taken this prized possession, that is way harder than court,” said Sujatha Baliga, director of the Restorative Justice Project at the National Council on Crime and Delinquency. “Nothing we do in court has caused that ‘aha’ moment that comes from a deep understanding of the impact of our behaviors.”

The encounter also helps the victim. When Jennifer Hahn of West Des Moines caught the young boy who had stolen her son’s bike, “I was furious,” she said. “I probably would have put the kid in prison.”

Her anger turned to empathy, though, when she sat across from him in a restorative justice circle.

“We realized in the first circle that he couldn’t read. He didn’t have glasses so he couldn’t see. And no one even made sure he was eating lunch.” She also learned that he had stolen the bike to replace his own, which had been stolen. “I saw that he was a person, that he was a kid in crisis.”

However, restorative justice isn’t always the answer, experts agree.

Under the principles of most programs:

1) Juveniles cannot be diverted if they do not admit their wrongdoing. If they want to argue their innocence, they will have to go to court.

2) If the juvenile’s parents do not agree to diversion, the court must become formally involved.

3) If the victim objects to the diversion, or needs a no-contact order, a judge must see the case.

4) A juvenile with multiple offenses, or who has failed a previous diversion program, or who needs additional services often will wind up in the court system.

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